It is tough to find a life partner that suits your likings and tougher is to find one who you can sustain with. When analysed deeply the reasons are never big enough to believe problematic but the consequences that they produce disturb the entire journey of life ahead.
Husband wife relations are never based on the decision of the two of them. There are others involved like his friends, her friends, in laws and neighbours to name a few, and all of them produce their effect on the married life of the two.
The issues related to marriage are many but hereis one of the major issues that can be best understood with the following exemplary story.
Johnny & Georgia was a newly married couple. They spent almost two months together but never realized so much of the time had passed away. They would have continued to live happily thereafter when Georgia’s parents insisted Johnny to send her for a few weeks. By the time Johnny was so affectionate with Georgia that he couldn’t leave her alone. He denied the proposal.
The story doesn’t end here. Georgia’s parents constantly urged her to come and spend some time with their parents. Neither Johnny agreed nor did her parents stop calling her. After all they were parents. The result was as expected. Frustration or depression whatever it may be but Georgia’s behaviour was not the same and the consequences were all on their married life that was happier than ever.
There is nothing wrong to let her go home in fact this would strengthen the relationship. Here is a lookat couple of reasons why you should let her go home at regular intervals: -
1) Recall the Memories
When she goes home, the life again brings you back the time when you were all alone. Remember the time when you were a bachelor, how you spent time with your friends, came home late nights, read as many books as you could or played videogames or had fun on internet which all minimized after you got married.
2) Feel Like Missing Your Partner
It may take a day or two or more depending on how sensitive you are to regularize your routine. When away from home, the home appears lovelier. Let her go and you will realize how much you miss her and let her realize the same as well. Do this for a change in life. These will the keep the relationship fresh and healthy.
The girlfriend boyfriend relationship is for this very reason healthier than a wedding relation.
3) Don’t Just Think About Yourself
Don’t just think about yourself. She has all rights to go where she was born and brought up. So respect her emotions. There is no harm in letting her go there. The only thing to remember is to not to do this very frequently or there will be adverse effects too. Excessive of anything may be hazardous.