Life is entire mind’s game. This is probably the reason why children are better than adults. Watch the children when they play they don’t think a girl or a boy. They all are children. The first lesson begins here only. While talking to girls talk normally. Don’t give them this extra portion of interest.
Another major problem faced by many is they are very comfortable with the opposite gender but only when they are alone and there is enough space for them available. Unfortunately such opportunities are rarely available leaving such candidates in misery.
To avoid this learn to snatch opportunities ratherthan waiting for them. The reason behind why this happens is the common question, ‘what would the others say’. Forget about others. No one has time to think about you or even if they think let them think whatever. All the greats had this quality of ignorance with them.
If someone is not comfortable talking to girls then it is clear that the roots are deeper. The problem lies with the personality. There is some confidence problem that needs to be sorted out. Read books on influential behaviour, motivation, personality development and act as suggested in them.
What the girls like is not very different from what the boys do. All you have to do is study the behaviour of those who
Everyone likes those with an element of humour so do the girls. The one whose presence relives the stress is liked by everyone. If you are not humorous don’t try to create it for the sake of doing what was suggested.
There are other qualities too, that are appreciated for example the care, empathy, loyalty, that you possess. Not only the possession, but display factor is also important. Whatever you feel say it. Don’t accuse from behind.
In the end remember this very simple thing. Girls are all the same as they are also human but with extra sense of emotion and love. Whatever you do or whatever you say should be done so that it doesn’t hurt their emotions but this doesn’t mean that you act virtually. You do everything that they demand. For an invalid demand try to console those as to why that demands should not be met.