There are not many that can say they haven’t faced the social pressure but the thing is how to face it. The problem is majorly with those who are sensitive and emotional as they get carried away with small things. Even the minor issues appear large to them. With experience an individual learns to understand the social behaviour and how to behave in different situations. Here’s how: -
The biggest problem is the question, “What would the others say”?
This keeps on rotating in the minds of many whenever they take even a single step. Understand and make it clear that mostof the times the social pressure is not from the society but it is created as John Milton said, “Mind can make hell out of heaven and heaven out of hell”. It’s all about the mind.
If this question is not dealt with properly the problem appears in the multiplied form as a result of which the confidence goes down and some suffer nervous breakdown. The first step is to forget about the others. This is not that easy to implement as easy it was to advice.
How to get rid of the unwanted evils is all based upon what is being welcomed and what’s being rejected. If the bad thoughts and badconsequences are constantly thought upon they increase the negative energy in the person. This negative energy starts building high and reaches the subconscious of the person.
Subconscious is so powerful that it can do almost anything. In case of such people the negatives start happening and they never understand why it happened to them. It is always better to forget about others, expect the least from others, believe in self, and put the best effort. Always visualize the future and take the step forward to expect the unexpected. If it doesn’t happen it is good, if it does it will give you the confidence to face the odds.
Remember the least remembered thing, there is nothing that remains after death. People fear from what would happen if their names vanish; money is taken away etc. but what about death. Death is never thought upon. Others will either help or not help. The greatest of legends have made their names themselves, with their inner strength and will power. They never thought what the people would say.