You put your energy and time to buy something special and what you want in return is that your gift brings a smile on that person’s face and that gift is taken utmost care of. Is that done? To gift something to someone could be the best idea anyone would have to make him/her happy. What about a surprise gift? How about something special? Something that the person would never forget, but do people actually remember special gifts or presents?
People remember special gifts or presents. Yes they do but not all. An old man (he was a teacher at someschool) was gifted a precious pen by one of his students on getting his first salary. The teacher in turn passed the pen on to another student of his, who by chance happened to be that student’s classmate. The person who gifted the pen then went on to the teacher to ask him if he had given the pen to some other student and the teacher said yes.
The teacher said it was his choice. He was gifted something and then the thing belonged to him. The one who gifted should forget about that once he did his job. The student could say nothing. Whilethere are such people, there are people who care special gifts and get delighted whenever they receive some. Females in particular (not all though) are very interested in receiving and caring for gifts.
When you gift something special to someone special, it is an expression of how much you care for that person. It might also mean a momentary affection. Whatever it may be but it certainly meant that you had some place for that person in your heart. The person who received the gift would have his/her ego satisfied as it proved there is at least someone who cared for him/her. The one who gifted would get his/her ego satisfied with the smile on the other person’s face and the care that gift received.
People remember special gifts and they also don’t remember them. It is not important that your gift should be remembered but what is important is that you should be remembered always. Things are mortal as the man is. Relationship should be beyond gifts despite the importance of gifts to keep the relationship afresh.